Let the Law of Attraction Work for You

Let the Law of Attraction Work for You

Tiff and I talk about relationship this, relationship that, and today is no different because intimate relationship (whether we’re in one or not) is something everyone thinks about!

One of the things that makes the greatest difference in our relationship and life is allowing the Universe to assist us with every single thing we want for ourselves.

I know you’re continually learning and expanding your knowledge about many things, most especially things like how to manifest your dreams, and how to lessen your anxiety and upset so you can feel better.

One book that has made our lives so much better and simpler, is the “Law of Attraction.”

Many years ago, Tiff and I had gone to the library to pick up a couple of books and as we were looking along one of the shelves the “Law of Attraction” book fell right off the shelf at our feet.

We picked it up and began looking through it and realized that it was no accident we had this book in our hands.

We took it home and didn’t stop reading until we had read the whole book. It went along with the things we spend our time teaching and doing in our own lives with clearing limiting beliefs so we can have more of what we wanted in our lives.

We weren’t alone in being excited about the Law of Attraction, so is Louise Hay, the mother of positive thinking.

“The law of attraction is that our thinking creates and brings to us whatever we think about,” she says. “It’s as though every time we think a thought, every time we speak a word, the universe is listening and responding to us.”  Louise Hay

We both started consciously setting our intentions about everything, whether it was little or big. That was such an adventure!

We started having massive shifts and changes happening almost effortlessly.

We found the perfect house to live in, in the most gorgeous neighborhood. In fact, Tiff had set her intention to live in a house that was close to everything yet one that would feel like you’re living in the forest with lots of trees. She was dead set on having a flame maple tree out in front of the kitchen window…we got everything we wanted.

We realized that we had been given a magnificent gift to understand how the law of attraction works, and how simple life becomes when you allow the Universe to assist you.

You’ll often hear us say, “I set my intention that _____________.”

You may wonder what it means to set an intention.

I’m going to share with you HOW TO do this.

It’s 5 Easy Steps

  1. Identify something you want to bring into your life or something you’d like to have different.
  2. Make a decision to have it, believing that it’s yours. Making a firm decision to have it is critical. It doesn’t matter if what you want seems huge, the Universe doesn’t notice a difference between $1 or $1,000,000.
  3. Then say to yourself, “I choose to have ______” (whatever it was you made the decision about having, knowing that it’s indeed yours to have). See the Universe as your own personal manager, taking care of all the details.
  4. See yourself enjoying it as though it’s already done. See it, feel it, taste it.
  5. Surrender it, and LET GO of trying to manage the details. In other words stop trying to force it to happen the way you think it should happen. If there’s something you need to do, you’ll have a clear knowing of what that is, and it’ll give you a sense of peace to do it, otherwise just live your life, allowing the Universe to bring it in (or out). It’s that simple!

Before I finish this article, I want to share with you how intention setting works within your relationship.
For example (I will change to names to protect the innocent ;-), when Johnny says something stupid to Bella, and she gets extremely upset, Johnny will quickly set an intention that a peaceful resolution will happen and that Bella and Johnny will be happy together again, very quickly. And Johnny reports that every single time he does this, things get better very quickly.

Keep in mind, however, Johnny is a very conscious man and knows that if he’s the cause of the ruckus, that he’ll own his shit and make changes where necessary. Johnny is a very wise DM. Just sayin…

Another way intention setting works in relationship is with sex. Maybe one of you in your relationship isn’t on the same timeline as your partner, so try this experiment, set an intention for an opportunity to have great sex with your partner and notice how quickly it comes in.

Play with this stuff. It’s amazing and makes life exciting and fun.

If you’re have an especially down day, ask the Universe to assist you to feel peace instead of negativity and then allow it to come in. It really works!

And one last example of Tiff’s intention setting is to find the perfect time to have what could be an uncomfortable clarifying conversation with me. (Heaven must know that I can get a little wild sometimes when being confronted with my own stupid, or maybe Tiff is talking about Johnny, hmmmm, we’ll never know for sure will we??!!)

If you’re someone that already sets your intentions, share with the rest of us some of the great things that have come through for you below in the comment thread.

Now, set those intentions and let the Universe do the work.

We’re all in this one together.



Force vs. Flow…What’s it gonna be?

Force vs. Flow…What’s it gonna be?


I can’t tell you how many times I have tried to force things to go a certain way in my life, how about you??

This has caused much anger and resentment on my part.

Now I choose to live in the flow, trusting that the Universe is my perfect life manager.

Have you noticed when you have a problem, everyone has a solution and an opinion?

There are voices coming at you from every angle, “Do this! Do that!”

Then of course, there’s the monkey chatter in your head telling you to do all kinds of things that feel hard and grueling so you can get what you want. Eeeeek!

We all feel called to live a life of happiness and joy, yet so many can’t seem to find it.

We all have desires of what we want life to look like, yet many feel they can’t have it.

Why is that?

The answer is simple. You aren’t allowing it to be.

When you set an intention to have certain experiences in life, the things of now must fall away in order for you to receive what you’re calling in.

This isn’t talked about very often because it feels scary to openly accept that things must change. So, either you can accept this truth, or simply live as a victim while life happens “to” you.

Understanding the clearing process is a critical part of attracting what you want.

For instance, you want more money to come into your life, then you lose your job.

You may feel completely duped until you see that because you lost your job, you had to relocate. You found a friend in your new area that was looking to hire a person with your skills. You were hired and within a short period of time you were in the job and money of your dreams. Thank you Universe!

Maybe you’ve set the intention to have a loving and beautiful marriage because you aren’t happy with how your marriage is, then you find yourself divorced. How could this happen? Soon you find the love of your life and all of a sudden you’re living smack dab in the center of what you wanted. Thank you Universe!

These miracles can only happen when certain things are cleared out.

We run into problems when we have a death grip on the now.


When we become resistant to change, we block the flow of our intention. When things look like they’re falling apart, people tend to panic and jump back into force trying to save what’s meant to dissolve… thus keeping themselves stuck in what they don’t want. And even in this, the Universe says, “YES!”

In order to receive what you intend, you must let go of the process of how it comes through, for that job is being done for you by Source.

This is called “living in the flow.” (No drowning involved!)

It’s in uncertainty that all possibilities exist.

Once you embrace this, you will live a joyful and abundant life no matter what things look like.

Here’s a very important truth we teach all of our clients…

When life feels to be falling apart, remember that a clearing is happening in order for things to fall perfectly into place.

The Universe always says YES!

Now take a load off and enjoy your perfectly designed day!



P.S. Here’s a quick grab guide to help you find your center when your world feels upside down (and it only takes 30 seconds to do), click the pink panner for immediate access.