Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

Are you willing to do what it takes? Well…are you?

Jack and I have some questions for you? We want to ask you these questions because we actually care about your life, in fact we care so much, that we spend OUR LIFE teaching you how to create yours.

When you succeed, others know that it’s possible for them to succeed. That means your success gives another person permission to be more than what they are today.

So here it goes…

  • What kind of life do you want?
  • Are you willing to do what it takes to have that life?
  • Are you willing to get up every single day and take steps toward what you are creating?
  • Are you willing to walk through every fear that comes up that tells you why you can’t or shouldn’t have what you want?
  • Are you willing to question everything you think you know so that you can see more?
  • Are you willing to do things that may disappoint other people because you’re choosing out of other’s expectations?
  • Are you willing to celebrate who you really are in spite of rejection?
  • Are you willing to experience joy and laughter and fun every day?
  • Are you willing to trust the Universe implicitly and know that it has your back and will bring everything you want into your reality if you will allow it?

If you can say yes to all of these questions, you will have absolutely everything you desire.

Jack and I are here to teach you how to do it.

Our specialty is teaching you how to get clear on what you want and to arm you with powerful tools that are guaranteed to deliver over-and-over.

We know our stuff. We live it and love it and you can too.

It’s that simple… We spend our life helping you create yours!

You may have already coached with us, but need a quick tune-up, we have made it incredibly easy and affordable for you to come back, message Tiff on facebook or shoot Jack at text at 801-243-4460.

If you’re ready to explore coaching with us, we would love to start this ball rolling. The first step is to reach out, same as above…private message Tiff on facebook or text Jack at 801-243-4460, and we’ll get you the consult application.

Our consults are complimentary once your application is accepted and they can be done with you sitting on the Red Couch or via Skype, they last around 45 minutes.

Love,

Tiff & Jack
Your Life, Your Way
tiffandjack.com

Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

I can’t help myself, there’s a DF (dominant feminine) that’s stolen my heart, hook-line-and-sinker.

Can you say “love bomb?!”

You say, “love bomb,” I say, “Tiffany!” It’s all the same.

Oh how I love the DF, let me share the ways.

Just a few words that capture the essence of the DF:

Bright.

Shiny.

Sparkle.

Sass.

All things LOVE.

Connected.

Awake.

Passion.

Fire.

Emotional.

Vast.

Present.

And the list goes on.

Tiff woke me up early one morning because she had come across a video that perfectly captures the essence of the DF.

Watch and enjoy!

Happy one minute and crying your eyes out the next…yep, you’re a DF, and you’re adorable.

Cherish yourself, sweet DF.

See your beauty and brightness.

And the rest of us will rejoice with you.

Love always,

Jack

P.S. Are you a DF? Tell us below, and share one thing about your DFness that you love.

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on our wall?

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on our wall?

Jack and I are quite the team, and have often been asked how we do it.

We work well together because we’re in balance.

I as the DF and Jack as the DM are 2 parts of a whole, and we beautifully compliment one another.

Because I know you’re curious about what our life really looks like, here ya go.

I wake between 3:30 and 5:00 AM.

Jack is sleeping away as I lay in bed thinking about our kids, grand baby, the food I’m going to make for the day and many other things. I check my calendar to see our client load, connect with God and ask for assistance to get it all done and have fun doing it.

Another part of my morning ritual is connecting with my peeps over messenger.

The whole time I’m busy doing my morning stuff, my excitement grows for Jack to wake up so we can kiss, touch and talk. My anticipation usually gets the best of me and I wake Jack up because I’m just too excited.

We get to the gym, then come home and I make breakfast for us and make Jack’s special morning coffee. While we eat and talk, I snuggle with our sweet grand baby, and plan our our workday.

As a side note (OK definitely not a SIDE note, but actually the MAIN note), one of the BIGGEST connectors I have with Jack is when we connect through intimacy…talking, listening, being present, and making love.

For me, making love is what gives our life together deep meaning, excitement, pleasure and joy. It’s the best part of my life and I cannot keep my hands to myself, EVER!

I was simply made to make love. The best part about it, Jack recognizes my cues beautifully and then takes the lead! All I can say about this is, “OMG! Jack has got it goin’ on!”

It’s not all play, although it feels like it, Jack tears away from me and heads into our office to build and run our biz, while I stay at home and manage family stuff. Oftentimes I have a second sleep in the morning because I’ve been up so early, and once I wake up, then starts me getting myself dolled up for my beloved.

During this time apart, I cannot help but text Jack naughty texts and pics because it’s just so fun. wink emoticon

Jack then comes home for lunch. We kiss and eat, and sometimes make love again (on the really fun days), then back to the office to coach our spectacular clients, where we talk ceaselessly about all things relationship, life and love.

Business ends after our last client for the day, and no more business talk is allowed, because there’s so much more to life than just business and work. Dinner time is eating at home or having Jack take me out.

Our nights are when we have FUN. (Come to think of it, so are our mornings, and afternoons, hmmm go figure.)

During the summer, we’re outside a lot, going for walks, sitting together on our patio drinking wine, or playing with our sweet little grand baby girl. Winter evenings are movie or sharing a book together time.

We live to laugh and play, and totally dig it.

Friday through Sunday is our weekend and Friday night is date night.

I look forward to Friday night all week long because this is when Jack wines and dines me, and you know…I just can’t get enough of that.

Saturday and Sunday are the days when we spend more time going for walks, having sex, talking with friends, and enjoying our family.

No matter what I’m doing, loving Jack is my moving force, whether it be through good meals, dessert, sex, loving words or my constant affection, I’m always moving in love with my beloved.

Jack is continually looking for ways to make my life run smooth, and give me the world, and let me tell you, I gladly receive it.

This is how we work together to create relationship bliss, and it works!

So now that you’ve spent a day in the life of Jack and me, what about you, what’s one thing you do with your SO that keeps the passion and sizzle alive? (share below…:)

Jack and I are in your corner and know that relationship happiness is yours, and we want to help you have it.

Have the best weekend ever!

Loves and Kisses,

Tiff

P.S. If there’s something that made you smile as you read this, we’d love to have you share that in the comments below or do a Facebook share, and also send this message along to a friend so they can smile too. The more smiles the better. Thanks for reading. XO

Mom knows best!

Mom knows best!

I love watching Tiff (DF/dominant feminine).

Everything she does is magic! (Can you hear “The Police” singing their hearts out??)

We’ve been very very busy that last couple of months, but this past 3 days has been exponentially CRAZY…to say the least.

Running your own business, coaching, speaking, having adult kids living with us for a time, a new grandbaby ready to bust out, lots and lots of videos, audios, and worksheets being created… creates a bit of overwhelm for my angel girl.

That’s putting it mildly!

It’s more like being a hand in the middle of one of those Dyson Airblade Hand Dryers, feeling like you’ll be blown out into space if you don’t have a firm foothold.

Yep! It’s been a wild ride.

The DF prefers lots of freedom of movement, no rushing, being in the moment, and not feeling to weighed down by life.

I know, I live with one, and have a solid understanding of the fact that Tiff does NOT like to feel overwhelmed…a common emotion for the DF.

When things get super crazy busy at our house, and Tiff is feeling frazzled, the sage wisdom of her mom always comes to my mind.

“Pieces parts little girl.”

Do you remember the timed math drills we did in elementary school?

To Tiff those drills threw her magical brain into overload and she would put her cute foot down and cry at the thought of such a task…that is until her brilliant mama solved the problem by taking a piece of construction paper, cutting a small square out of it, and placing it over the top of the math problems so that she could only see one at a time…voila! Magic!!

Suddenly Tiff’s world got easier and she could finish the drill in record time.

Sage wisdom, I’d say.

Just break it down into “pieces parts.”

Take it easy.

One step at a time.

And before you know it, you’ve completed the “test” with flying colors, and overwhelm disappears.

Nothing makes me happier than being 100% in deep with Tiff and all of her magical, emotional, and mystical ways.

The DF makes the world a much more colorful place.

You’re genius! 

Please let your colors shine BRIGHTLY.

Yours,

Jack

P.S. I’d love to hear 1 thing that simplifies your life when overwhelm hits. Please share right here. Inquiring minds must know. 😉

 

 

What tickles your fancy?

What tickles your fancy?

I know that all this DM and DF lingo can feel so whacky and uncertain in so many ways.

“What the hell am I supposed to do with all this masculine/feminine stuff??”  (You may be asking.)

Don’t you worry your pretty little self, both Tiff and yours truly will continue to help you get this schtuff figered out. (Yes, the country accent was included as I just wrote that.)

We make your relationship happiness our business. 😉

The other day I asked Tiff what being happy meant to her.

She thought about it for a minute and said, “Hmmm, what I really want is to enjoy a state of well-being.”

I found it fascinating that her word for happiness has “being” in it…well-being.

The DF lives from a state of “being” and the DM lives from a state of “doing.”

The DF is looking to BE in a state of wellness of mind, body and spirit, and the DM is looking for happiness, most often through DOING.

Tiff’s (DF) idea of well-being includes:

  • being comfy with her own multifaceted emotional states
  • parties
  • connection
  • love
  • family
  • feeling captivating
  • sex
  • affection
  • lots of fun
  • laughter
  • not having to manage all the details
  • worry free
  • sparkly things
  • flow
  • etc…

My (DM) idea of happiness includes:

  • accomplishment
  • a job well-done
  • plenty of money
  • Tiff’s comfort and happiness
  • managing details
  • looking to the future and planning
  • setting goals
  • good sex
  • good food
  • affection
  • knowing I have what it takes
  • being the hero (aka knight in shining armor)
  • etc…

The amazing thing is the fact that when each of us are happy and being/doing what feels good to us individually, we are creating the snap-crackle-pop in our relationship.

The DF and DM go together like peanut butter & jelly, wine & cheese, pizza & beer, whiskey & cigars…Tiff & Jack!

It takes 2 for relationshift bliss! (Do you love those last 2 words…they’re the name of our online relationship program that’s launching next week!! We’re freaking excited.)

Remember it takes a DM and a DF to make the sexual sparks fly in a relationship.

The first thing on your list must be to figure out if you’re the DM or the DF (click the big YELLOW button at the bottom of this page to take the quiz, if you haven’t already).

We’re serious about your well-being…and don’t you forget that!

If you want to make me (Jack/DM) happy, and I’m sure that’s your dying wish, please share the #1 thing that plops you squarely into a state of well-being.

Come on, please share your sexy feelings about this, click right here.

Love, peace & lots of sparkles just for you,

Jack

P.S. Click the happy yellow button to take the quiz.