The Present is Your Point-of-Power in Relationship!

The Present is Your Point-of-Power in Relationship!

What comes up for you when I say the word “law?” Speed limits, taxes, lawyers, no shoplifting??

How does this word make you feel?


The law I’m talking about is a whole new ball game. Once you understand and “obey” this law, suddenly you recognize that YOU have the power.

It’s the Law of Attraction, and it’ll knock your socks off!

Tiff’s had a lifelong understanding of this Law thanks to her sweet mom who would make her yearly list by writing everything she wanted onto it, and tape it to the back of the bathroom door.

As the year progressed Tiff would watch the items get crossed off the list as they came in.

One of the most surprising manifestations was having the 3 ginormous boulders (seriously they were each half as big as a car and painted white, no less) moved out of her front yard.

Tiff’s mom was a single parent with 3 kids, running her own business and doing a fine job of making sure they had what they needed but money was always tight.

Tiff’s uncle happened to be driving his tractor up the street, saw the boulders and had the thought to come inside and ask if she needed them moved anywhere.

Yep, it’s true, the Law of Attraction works. He was hit with the same thought that Tiff’s mom put out into the Universe, (“I want the boulders moved out of my yard”), and he acted on it.

Her mom knew that the things she wrote on her list would come in, she just didn’t know how they’d get there. She trusted God implicitly, and voila, over-and-over every single thing would come in that she wanted and needed, every year.

Please realize that you carry the power in your thoughts, right here, right now. And it works across-the-board, whether for you and the things you want, or the shifts you want to see in your relationship.

Real time example: 

Say that in your relationship, you want more connective time together, you’ve already talked about this with your S.O. in the past, and today you really want to connect. So you quietly (in your own mind) decide you want it, make the firm declaration that you’ll have it and then RELEASE it (this means letting go of “HOW” it’s going to happen).

It’s as simple as that!

Another example:

Say you feel horrible emotionally or physically and want to feel better but don’t have any idea how to make that happen. The first thing you need to do is to acknowledge that you’re just not feeling that great, make a declaration that you choose to feel better (send this declaration out to the Universe), then release the “how” and go about your day. And at the end of your day, notice how you feel…better??

It’s seems like magic but it isn’t, it’s real.

Thoughts are things, if they were big enough for you to see with your eyes you’d see that they’re tangible “things” you could touch. Thoughts are magnetic, they attract “like” thoughts (people, places, and things) to them.

When you think about what you want, rather than focusing on what you don’t want, the “magic” begins.

You’ll see more and more and more of what you want coming into your life.

Your relationship is no exception to the law of attraction. You want more sex? Set an intention and decide to have it, then release it and allow the Universe to do the work.

You want to attract “the one?” Choose it, expect it, and release it to the Universe to bring that person in.

One caveat, if there’s a specific person you’re wanting to be with but they’ve said they don’t want to be with you, or they don’t act interested…get specific on the type of person you want to be with, release the actual person you’re hung up on, and then allow and expect the Universe to bring your perfect match right into your life. Easy peasey.

I set my intentions every single day. As a DM I’ve noticed that managing my thoughts is an easy, normal part of every day, as I’m thought driven.

My sexy DF, Tiffany, on the other hand doesn’t have such an easy time managing thoughts as she is feeling centered.

However, whether someone is a DF or a DM, setting an intention is a quick and very easy way to shift the tide of the day into something that feels good.

Have you already put the Law of Attraction to work in your behalf? Please share some of your happy results below, because it gives the rest of us more hope about the possibilities!