The Present is Your Point-of-Power in Relationship!

The Present is Your Point-of-Power in Relationship!

What comes up for you when I say the word “law?” Speed limits, taxes, lawyers, no shoplifting??

How does this word make you feel?


The law I’m talking about is a whole new ball game. Once you understand and “obey” this law, suddenly you recognize that YOU have the power.

It’s the Law of Attraction, and it’ll knock your socks off!

Tiff’s had a lifelong understanding of this Law thanks to her sweet mom who would make her yearly list by writing everything she wanted onto it, and tape it to the back of the bathroom door.

As the year progressed Tiff would watch the items get crossed off the list as they came in.

One of the most surprising manifestations was having the 3 ginormous boulders (seriously they were each half as big as a car and painted white, no less) moved out of her front yard.

Tiff’s mom was a single parent with 3 kids, running her own business and doing a fine job of making sure they had what they needed but money was always tight.

Tiff’s uncle happened to be driving his tractor up the street, saw the boulders and had the thought to come inside and ask if she needed them moved anywhere.

Yep, it’s true, the Law of Attraction works. He was hit with the same thought that Tiff’s mom put out into the Universe, (“I want the boulders moved out of my yard”), and he acted on it.

Her mom knew that the things she wrote on her list would come in, she just didn’t know how they’d get there. She trusted God implicitly, and voila, over-and-over every single thing would come in that she wanted and needed, every year.

Please realize that you carry the power in your thoughts, right here, right now. And it works across-the-board, whether for you and the things you want, or the shifts you want to see in your relationship.

Real time example: 

Say that in your relationship, you want more connective time together, you’ve already talked about this with your S.O. in the past, and today you really want to connect. So you quietly (in your own mind) decide you want it, make the firm declaration that you’ll have it and then RELEASE it (this means letting go of “HOW” it’s going to happen).

It’s as simple as that!

Another example:

Say you feel horrible emotionally or physically and want to feel better but don’t have any idea how to make that happen. The first thing you need to do is to acknowledge that you’re just not feeling that great, make a declaration that you choose to feel better (send this declaration out to the Universe), then release the “how” and go about your day. And at the end of your day, notice how you feel…better??

It’s seems like magic but it isn’t, it’s real.

Thoughts are things, if they were big enough for you to see with your eyes you’d see that they’re tangible “things” you could touch. Thoughts are magnetic, they attract “like” thoughts (people, places, and things) to them.

When you think about what you want, rather than focusing on what you don’t want, the “magic” begins.

You’ll see more and more and more of what you want coming into your life.

Your relationship is no exception to the law of attraction. You want more sex? Set an intention and decide to have it, then release it and allow the Universe to do the work.

You want to attract “the one?” Choose it, expect it, and release it to the Universe to bring that person in.

One caveat, if there’s a specific person you’re wanting to be with but they’ve said they don’t want to be with you, or they don’t act interested…get specific on the type of person you want to be with, release the actual person you’re hung up on, and then allow and expect the Universe to bring your perfect match right into your life. Easy peasey.

I set my intentions every single day. As a DM I’ve noticed that managing my thoughts is an easy, normal part of every day, as I’m thought driven.

My sexy DF, Tiffany, on the other hand doesn’t have such an easy time managing thoughts as she is feeling centered.

However, whether someone is a DF or a DM, setting an intention is a quick and very easy way to shift the tide of the day into something that feels good.

Have you already put the Law of Attraction to work in your behalf? Please share some of your happy results below, because it gives the rest of us more hope about the possibilities!



Does your romance need enhancing?

Does your romance need enhancing?

When you get home from a long day at work and notice a bright bunch of flowers sitting on the table and card with your name on it…do get the butterflies??

Or what about when you hear the words, “My god, you’re sexy!” And feel the palpable sexual tension in the air.

Mystery, excitement, anticipation??

Love and romance is just so darn delicious isn’t it!

Everyone loves romance, but the DM and DF can experience it differently, so what works for one may not work the same for the other.

Here are the differences:

I (Tiff) would have to say that one of the most romantic things Jack ever does is to take the lead. When he says to me, “Meet me in the bedroom in 5 minutes…with nothing on…”

Can you say “mystery and excitement?” I can!!

Remember, the first step to a relationship that’s filled with romance is to know whether you think more masculine or feminine because it takes one of each to create the sparkle and pop.

Now, let’s enhance that romance. 🙂

Love and Kisses,

Tiff & Jack

P.S. If you haven’t pressed the yellow button, now’s the time to do it. XO


Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

I can’t help myself, there’s a DF (dominant feminine) that’s stolen my heart, hook-line-and-sinker.

Can you say “love bomb?!”

You say, “love bomb,” I say, “Tiffany!” It’s all the same.

Oh how I love the DF, let me share the ways.

Just a few words that capture the essence of the DF:





All things LOVE.








And the list goes on.

Tiff woke me up early one morning because she had come across a video that perfectly captures the essence of the DF.

Watch and enjoy!

Happy one minute and crying your eyes out the next…yep, you’re a DF, and you’re adorable.

Cherish yourself, sweet DF.

See your beauty and brightness.

And the rest of us will rejoice with you.

Love always,


P.S. Are you a DF? Tell us below, and share one thing about your DFness that you love.

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on our wall?

Have you ever wanted to be a fly on our wall?

Jack and I are quite the team, and have often been asked how we do it.

We work well together because we’re in balance.

I as the DF and Jack as the DM are 2 parts of a whole, and we beautifully compliment one another.

Because I know you’re curious about what our life really looks like, here ya go.

I wake between 3:30 and 5:00 AM.

Jack is sleeping away as I lay in bed thinking about our kids, grand baby, the food I’m going to make for the day and many other things. I check my calendar to see our client load, connect with God and ask for assistance to get it all done and have fun doing it.

Another part of my morning ritual is connecting with my peeps over messenger.

The whole time I’m busy doing my morning stuff, my excitement grows for Jack to wake up so we can kiss, touch and talk. My anticipation usually gets the best of me and I wake Jack up because I’m just too excited.

We get to the gym, then come home and I make breakfast for us and make Jack’s special morning coffee. While we eat and talk, I snuggle with our sweet grand baby, and plan our our workday.

As a side note (OK definitely not a SIDE note, but actually the MAIN note), one of the BIGGEST connectors I have with Jack is when we connect through intimacy…talking, listening, being present, and making love.

For me, making love is what gives our life together deep meaning, excitement, pleasure and joy. It’s the best part of my life and I cannot keep my hands to myself, EVER!

I was simply made to make love. The best part about it, Jack recognizes my cues beautifully and then takes the lead! All I can say about this is, “OMG! Jack has got it goin’ on!”

It’s not all play, although it feels like it, Jack tears away from me and heads into our office to build and run our biz, while I stay at home and manage family stuff. Oftentimes I have a second sleep in the morning because I’ve been up so early, and once I wake up, then starts me getting myself dolled up for my beloved.

During this time apart, I cannot help but text Jack naughty texts and pics because it’s just so fun. wink emoticon

Jack then comes home for lunch. We kiss and eat, and sometimes make love again (on the really fun days), then back to the office to coach our spectacular clients, where we talk ceaselessly about all things relationship, life and love.

Business ends after our last client for the day, and no more business talk is allowed, because there’s so much more to life than just business and work. Dinner time is eating at home or having Jack take me out.

Our nights are when we have FUN. (Come to think of it, so are our mornings, and afternoons, hmmm go figure.)

During the summer, we’re outside a lot, going for walks, sitting together on our patio drinking wine, or playing with our sweet little grand baby girl. Winter evenings are movie or sharing a book together time.

We live to laugh and play, and totally dig it.

Friday through Sunday is our weekend and Friday night is date night.

I look forward to Friday night all week long because this is when Jack wines and dines me, and you know…I just can’t get enough of that.

Saturday and Sunday are the days when we spend more time going for walks, having sex, talking with friends, and enjoying our family.

No matter what I’m doing, loving Jack is my moving force, whether it be through good meals, dessert, sex, loving words or my constant affection, I’m always moving in love with my beloved.

Jack is continually looking for ways to make my life run smooth, and give me the world, and let me tell you, I gladly receive it.

This is how we work together to create relationship bliss, and it works!

So now that you’ve spent a day in the life of Jack and me, what about you, what’s one thing you do with your SO that keeps the passion and sizzle alive? (share below…:)

Jack and I are in your corner and know that relationship happiness is yours, and we want to help you have it.

Have the best weekend ever!

Loves and Kisses,


P.S. If there’s something that made you smile as you read this, we’d love to have you share that in the comments below or do a Facebook share, and also send this message along to a friend so they can smile too. The more smiles the better. Thanks for reading. XO

Mom knows best!

Mom knows best!

I love watching Tiff (DF/dominant feminine).

Everything she does is magic! (Can you hear “The Police” singing their hearts out??)

We’ve been very very busy that last couple of months, but this past 3 days has been exponentially CRAZY…to say the least.

Running your own business, coaching, speaking, having adult kids living with us for a time, a new grandbaby ready to bust out, lots and lots of videos, audios, and worksheets being created… creates a bit of overwhelm for my angel girl.

That’s putting it mildly!

It’s more like being a hand in the middle of one of those Dyson Airblade Hand Dryers, feeling like you’ll be blown out into space if you don’t have a firm foothold.

Yep! It’s been a wild ride.

The DF prefers lots of freedom of movement, no rushing, being in the moment, and not feeling to weighed down by life.

I know, I live with one, and have a solid understanding of the fact that Tiff does NOT like to feel overwhelmed…a common emotion for the DF.

When things get super crazy busy at our house, and Tiff is feeling frazzled, the sage wisdom of her mom always comes to my mind.

“Pieces parts little girl.”

Do you remember the timed math drills we did in elementary school?

To Tiff those drills threw her magical brain into overload and she would put her cute foot down and cry at the thought of such a task…that is until her brilliant mama solved the problem by taking a piece of construction paper, cutting a small square out of it, and placing it over the top of the math problems so that she could only see one at a time…voila! Magic!!

Suddenly Tiff’s world got easier and she could finish the drill in record time.

Sage wisdom, I’d say.

Just break it down into “pieces parts.”

Take it easy.

One step at a time.

And before you know it, you’ve completed the “test” with flying colors, and overwhelm disappears.

Nothing makes me happier than being 100% in deep with Tiff and all of her magical, emotional, and mystical ways.

The DF makes the world a much more colorful place.

You’re genius! 

Please let your colors shine BRIGHTLY.



P.S. I’d love to hear 1 thing that simplifies your life when overwhelm hits. Please share right here. Inquiring minds must know. 😉