Jack and I are quite the team, and have often been asked how we do it.
We work well together because we’re in balance.
I as the DF and Jack as the DM are 2 parts of a whole, and we beautifully compliment one another.
Because I know you’re curious about what our life really looks like, here ya go.
I wake between 3:30 and 5:00 AM.
Jack is sleeping away as I lay in bed thinking about our kids, grand baby, the food I’m going to make for the day and many other things. I check my calendar to see our client load, connect with God and ask for assistance to get it all done and have fun doing it.
Another part of my morning ritual is connecting with my peeps over messenger.
The whole time I’m busy doing my morning stuff, my excitement grows for Jack to wake up so we can kiss, touch and talk. My anticipation usually gets the best of me and I wake Jack up because I’m just too excited.
We get to the gym, then come home and I make breakfast for us and make Jack’s special morning coffee. While we eat and talk, I snuggle with our sweet grand baby, and plan our our workday.
As a side note (OK definitely not a SIDE note, but actually the MAIN note), one of the BIGGEST connectors I have with Jack is when we connect through intimacy…talking, listening, being present, and making love.
For me, making love is what gives our life together deep meaning, excitement, pleasure and joy. It’s the best part of my life and I cannot keep my hands to myself, EVER!
I was simply made to make love. The best part about it, Jack recognizes my cues beautifully and then takes the lead! All I can say about this is, “OMG! Jack has got it goin’ on!”
It’s not all play, although it feels like it, Jack tears away from me and heads into our office to build and run our biz, while I stay at home and manage family stuff. Oftentimes I have a second sleep in the morning because I’ve been up so early, and once I wake up, then starts me getting myself dolled up for my beloved.
During this time apart, I cannot help but text Jack naughty texts and pics because it’s just so fun. wink emoticon
Jack then comes home for lunch. We kiss and eat, and sometimes make love again (on the really fun days), then back to the office to coach our spectacular clients, where we talk ceaselessly about all things relationship, life and love.
Business ends after our last client for the day, and no more business talk is allowed, because there’s so much more to life than just business and work. Dinner time is eating at home or having Jack take me out.
Our nights are when we have FUN. (Come to think of it, so are our mornings, and afternoons, hmmm go figure.)
During the summer, we’re outside a lot, going for walks, sitting together on our patio drinking wine, or playing with our sweet little grand baby girl. Winter evenings are movie or sharing a book together time.
We live to laugh and play, and totally dig it.
Friday through Sunday is our weekend and Friday night is date night.
I look forward to Friday night all week long because this is when Jack wines and dines me, and you know…I just can’t get enough of that.
Saturday and Sunday are the days when we spend more time going for walks, having sex, talking with friends, and enjoying our family.
No matter what I’m doing, loving Jack is my moving force, whether it be through good meals, dessert, sex, loving words or my constant affection, I’m always moving in love with my beloved.
Jack is continually looking for ways to make my life run smooth, and give me the world, and let me tell you, I gladly receive it.
This is how we work together to create relationship bliss, and it works!
So now that you’ve spent a day in the life of Jack and me, what about you, what’s one thing you do with your SO that keeps the passion and sizzle alive? (share below…:)
Jack and I are in your corner and know that relationship happiness is yours, and we want to help you have it.
Have the best weekend ever!
Loves and Kisses,
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Before I begin, I would like to humbly and gratefully thank the many teachers I’ve learned from through the years about what to do and what not to do in relationship.
My heart deeply grateful for the most influential teacher and masculine presence in my life… Jack.
The relationship I’ve been in with Jack has taught me more about myself and my own captivating beauty than any other.
I hold this learning as sacred and dear for it has brought me back to myself and my own feminine joy.
I have also come to understand the brilliance of the dominant masculine (DM). The masculine presence is the excitement and passion in my life.
Ok buckle up, let’s get down to bidness shall we?
In all the years Jack and I have spent coaching such amazing, brilliant peeps, I’ve never talked to a DF (Dominant Feminine) that doesn’t want to experience deep intimacy and sexual passion in his/her primary relationship.
There is one thing that you MUST understand and put into action every single day in order to experience sexual passion and intimacy with your significant other (SO).
To know what that is, please keep reading.
It takes two to tango, baby.
Having a DF and DM together in a relationship is what creates Sexual Polarity.
Sexual polarity is the magical energetic force of passion and intimacy that vibrates between the masculine and feminine thus creating the flow of sexual chemistry.
It’s literally like the positive and negative sides of a magnet coming together. They just can’t help themselves, they’ve got to touch.
Now if you are trying to force two positives or two negatives together, they repel each other.
If there are two DM’s or two DF’s together in a relationship, there will be no sexual polarity. You will actually feel sexually repelled.
This is why the force of attraction sometimes fades away in relationships.
If you want REAL and LASTING passion you must have a giver and a receiver, or in other words a DM(-) and an DF(+), otherwise you’ll have two friendly roommates having sex out of duty or avoiding it all together.
If what you’re reading triggers you, read on dear one, we have answers.
If you don’t have sexual polarity it doesn’t mean that you aren’t great friends and you don’t love each other, but it does mean the sexual passion will dissolve if it hasn’t already.
This will eventually lead to the breaking down of your relationship, robbing you of intimacy and sexual expression.
Some people feel okay not having intimacy or sexual connection in their relationship, and for those people this blog probably won’t speak to them.
But for those of you that DO want passion and intimacy in your relationship, you’re definitely in the right place.
Speaking about sex and polarity, that brings to mind the caveman. Bam! Bam!!
The other day I was talking to a friend of mine that said, “I just want my husband to act like a caveman and crack me over the head with his club, drag me into a cave, and TAKE me!”
Now that’s some sexual polarity! Yes it’s true, those caveman moments certainly are exhilarating! LOL
The conversation I had with my friend reminded me of all the ways I see what a goner Jack is when s/he sees me, and I know without a doubt that s/he’s totally captivated and smitten by me being my feminine energy self.
RelationTip # 1: The driving force of the DF is to be captivating.
When I feel captivating (wanted, heard, seen) there’s nothing I can’t do because life feels exciting and hopeful.
When I don’t feel captivating or desirable, life feels like a damn drag. In fact it just sucks!
RelationTip # 2: Captivating your SO is a no-brainer when they’re your polar opposite energy.
RelationTip # 3: Body parts do NOT determine Dominant Energy.
Being my sexy captivating feminine self includes daily self-attention.
I adorn myself.
I love to look tantalizing.
I see my face and body as a canvas of creative expression.
I wear clothes that match my personality.
I love all of the vibrant color and texture I add to my canvas.
I have created my own perfume with sensual oils that I wear every day, and I keep my skin soft with coconut oil.
I LOVE my baths and get to the gym often.
I take pride in being a homemaker, mother and business owner.
Doing these things bring immense joy to me and oh boy is Jack captivated!
Honestly there’s no better feeling than when Jack come home for lunch, and gasps when s/he sees me! Talk about feeling cherished. 😉
What do you do to express your feminine self? What do you adorn yourself with? What are your sacred rituals? Come on, please share with us.
If you haven’t thought about this before, take some time, and think of creative ways to express yourself in your feminine essence.
Nothing is more captivating to the DM than a DF that takes joy in creating beauty and adorning themselves through creative expression.
I would love to hear some of your ideas.
Here’s to another beautiful week of being captivating! Ha!
Now I’m off to make our son’s birthday cake. Happy Birthday, Anders!
Peace & Sparkles,
I have many sacred rituals I do often, that keep me connected to God and living in the present.
One of which is the sacred ritual of Kitchen Witchery.
I thrive when I’m creating light-filled dishes for those that I love.
This bring so much joy into my life.
A question for you is, “What is one of your sacred rituals that brings joy into your life?”
Please share, we would love to hear from you.
Peace & Sparkles,
Please use organic everything.
1 whole chicken
10 carrots peeled and sliced
10 stalks of celery sliced
3 cloves of garlic minced
12-18 cups of water
2 bay leaves
A handful of fresh parsley
2 tablespoons Himalayan sea salt
In a tea ball combine…
1/2 tsp of each of the following:
Boil the tea ball herbs in the soup with the chicken and vegetables.
Once the chicken is falling off the bone, (about 3 hrs) take the chicken out and debone the chicken and put the poultry back into the soup. Remove the tea ball and discard the herbs.
All done! Enjoy and get well!!!
While touching and cleaning the food I speak this intention prayer…
“I infuse this food with light for all those who consume it. I ask that this food will transmute into it’s natural state which will give vigor and enliven the body. I give thanks for all that I have and all that I give. Let it be so.”
Love & Peace,