Does your romance need enhancing?

Does your romance need enhancing?

When you get home from a long day at work and notice a bright bunch of flowers sitting on the table and card with your name on it…do get the butterflies??

Or what about when you hear the words, “My god, you’re sexy!” And feel the palpable sexual tension in the air.

Mystery, excitement, anticipation??

Love and romance is just so darn delicious isn’t it!

Everyone loves romance, but the DM and DF can experience it differently, so what works for one may not work the same for the other.

Here are the differences:

I (Tiff) would have to say that one of the most romantic things Jack ever does is to take the lead. When he says to me, “Meet me in the bedroom in 5 minutes…with nothing on…”

Can you say “mystery and excitement?” I can!!

Remember, the first step to a relationship that’s filled with romance is to know whether you think more masculine or feminine because it takes one of each to create the sparkle and pop.

Now, let’s enhance that romance. 🙂

Love and Kisses,

Tiff & Jack

P.S. If you haven’t pressed the yellow button, now’s the time to do it. XO

 

Crap happens! Then what??!!

Crap happens! Then what??!!

Do you wonder if Tiff and I spend our days skipping through the daisies with the butterflies and unicorns??

Like maybe we have it so good that we never have a moment’s pause?

I’ll be as honest as I can be…the answer is, “hell no!”

We’re living life one day at a time and sometimes those days have a load of shnit to deal with.

However, we won’t be stopped and know what it takes to live BLISS even when the cookies are crumbling.

Do you ever find yourself getting to the end of day only to realize that your lips haven’t touched those of your “person” (SO aka significant other) all day long?

This must change if you want a relationship that’s filled with sizzle.

It’s time to get those priorities straight and we’re here to show you how.

 

When your relationship is struggling, everything in life feels harder.

We want to help you change all that.

Here’s to more joy than you ever thought possible.

To life!

Love,

Jack

P.S. Please share, and we’ll kiss your sexy feet. 😉

Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

Happy one minute and bawling the next? Yep! You’re a DF.

I can’t help myself, there’s a DF (dominant feminine) that’s stolen my heart, hook-line-and-sinker.

Can you say “love bomb?!”

You say, “love bomb,” I say, “Tiffany!” It’s all the same.

Oh how I love the DF, let me share the ways.

Just a few words that capture the essence of the DF:

Bright.

Shiny.

Sparkle.

Sass.

All things LOVE.

Connected.

Awake.

Passion.

Fire.

Emotional.

Vast.

Present.

And the list goes on.

Tiff woke me up early one morning because she had come across a video that perfectly captures the essence of the DF.

Watch and enjoy!

Happy one minute and crying your eyes out the next…yep, you’re a DF, and you’re adorable.

Cherish yourself, sweet DF.

See your beauty and brightness.

And the rest of us will rejoice with you.

Love always,

Jack

P.S. Are you a DF? Tell us below, and share one thing about your DFness that you love.

Mom knows best!

Mom knows best!

I love watching Tiff (DF/dominant feminine).

Everything she does is magic! (Can you hear “The Police” singing their hearts out??)

We’ve been very very busy that last couple of months, but this past 3 days has been exponentially CRAZY…to say the least.

Running your own business, coaching, speaking, having adult kids living with us for a time, a new grandbaby ready to bust out, lots and lots of videos, audios, and worksheets being created… creates a bit of overwhelm for my angel girl.

That’s putting it mildly!

It’s more like being a hand in the middle of one of those Dyson Airblade Hand Dryers, feeling like you’ll be blown out into space if you don’t have a firm foothold.

Yep! It’s been a wild ride.

The DF prefers lots of freedom of movement, no rushing, being in the moment, and not feeling to weighed down by life.

I know, I live with one, and have a solid understanding of the fact that Tiff does NOT like to feel overwhelmed…a common emotion for the DF.

When things get super crazy busy at our house, and Tiff is feeling frazzled, the sage wisdom of her mom always comes to my mind.

“Pieces parts little girl.”

Do you remember the timed math drills we did in elementary school?

To Tiff those drills threw her magical brain into overload and she would put her cute foot down and cry at the thought of such a task…that is until her brilliant mama solved the problem by taking a piece of construction paper, cutting a small square out of it, and placing it over the top of the math problems so that she could only see one at a time…voila! Magic!!

Suddenly Tiff’s world got easier and she could finish the drill in record time.

Sage wisdom, I’d say.

Just break it down into “pieces parts.”

Take it easy.

One step at a time.

And before you know it, you’ve completed the “test” with flying colors, and overwhelm disappears.

Nothing makes me happier than being 100% in deep with Tiff and all of her magical, emotional, and mystical ways.

The DF makes the world a much more colorful place.

You’re genius! 

Please let your colors shine BRIGHTLY.

Yours,

Jack

P.S. I’d love to hear 1 thing that simplifies your life when overwhelm hits. Please share right here. Inquiring minds must know. 😉

 

 

What tickles your fancy?

What tickles your fancy?

I know that all this DM and DF lingo can feel so whacky and uncertain in so many ways.

“What the hell am I supposed to do with all this masculine/feminine stuff??”  (You may be asking.)

Don’t you worry your pretty little self, both Tiff and yours truly will continue to help you get this schtuff figered out. (Yes, the country accent was included as I just wrote that.)

We make your relationship happiness our business. 😉

The other day I asked Tiff what being happy meant to her.

She thought about it for a minute and said, “Hmmm, what I really want is to enjoy a state of well-being.”

I found it fascinating that her word for happiness has “being” in it…well-being.

The DF lives from a state of “being” and the DM lives from a state of “doing.”

The DF is looking to BE in a state of wellness of mind, body and spirit, and the DM is looking for happiness, most often through DOING.

Tiff’s (DF) idea of well-being includes:

  • being comfy with her own multifaceted emotional states
  • parties
  • connection
  • love
  • family
  • feeling captivating
  • sex
  • affection
  • lots of fun
  • laughter
  • not having to manage all the details
  • worry free
  • sparkly things
  • flow
  • etc…

My (DM) idea of happiness includes:

  • accomplishment
  • a job well-done
  • plenty of money
  • Tiff’s comfort and happiness
  • managing details
  • looking to the future and planning
  • setting goals
  • good sex
  • good food
  • affection
  • knowing I have what it takes
  • being the hero (aka knight in shining armor)
  • etc…

The amazing thing is the fact that when each of us are happy and being/doing what feels good to us individually, we are creating the snap-crackle-pop in our relationship.

The DF and DM go together like peanut butter & jelly, wine & cheese, pizza & beer, whiskey & cigars…Tiff & Jack!

It takes 2 for relationshift bliss! (Do you love those last 2 words…they’re the name of our online relationship program that’s launching next week!! We’re freaking excited.)

Remember it takes a DM and a DF to make the sexual sparks fly in a relationship.

The first thing on your list must be to figure out if you’re the DM or the DF (click the big YELLOW button at the bottom of this page to take the quiz, if you haven’t already).

We’re serious about your well-being…and don’t you forget that!

If you want to make me (Jack/DM) happy, and I’m sure that’s your dying wish, please share the #1 thing that plops you squarely into a state of well-being.

Come on, please share your sexy feelings about this, click right here.

Love, peace & lots of sparkles just for you,

Jack

P.S. Click the happy yellow button to take the quiz.