080 – Resistance is Futile!

080 – Resistance is Futile!

Resistance = Fear of Loss

Trying to control another person or situation puts us into resistance because we’re afraid we’re going to lose something, and as a result it blocks the flow of goodness trying to come into your life.

noun “The refusal to accept or comply with something.‘they displayed a narrow-minded resistance to change’

Is that you? If so, listen up because today’s episode unwraps the truth about the destructive nature of trying to force your way on things. It doesn’t work.

Above all, there’s another way and it’s so much simpler. We’ll show you.

Does change scare the heebie jeebies out of you?

Does change scare the heebie jeebies out of you?

Does it make you crazy when you’re going along, enjoying your life, and all-of-the-sudden the proverbial rug is ripped right out from under you?

Do you wish things could just stay the same for a minute or two?

You’re not alone in this wish.

This happens often in relationship where you don’t even realize you’ve just done or said something that creates an adverse response in your beloved, and WHAM, conflict erupts.

It also happens at work, with our health and in a million other ways.

Comfort flies out the window and you find yourself feeling like you’re getting close to seeing rock bottom. This is the point at which you have a choice to shut down OR open up and embrace the possibilities.

Limitless possibilities live in the unknown.

I repeat, limitless possibilities live in the unknown.

Even though the unknown is scary and uncertain, it’s an amazing gift.

Change allows us to release the OLD so that we can embrace the NEW.

Trying to hang onto the old keeps us stuck and floundering.

Embracing the new gives us opportunities that move us forward into what can bring us even more happiness than we knew before.

Our spirit thrives in change as it understands the vastness of dwelling in limitless possibilities.

We’re beautiful expressions of the Divine.

Our ego wants us to play it safe, stay hidden, and resist change at all costs.

Our ego wants things to stay the same, to somehow protect us from rejection or failure. The messages it sends are based in illusion.

There’s no truth in rejection or failure. There’s only fear that we’re not wanted or that we’re not enough.

In truth we’re lovable and desirable and created perfectly whole as an individualized expression of the Divine.

As we clear the fears of change, and release the illusionary beliefs of rejection and failure, we’ll embrace change and seize the opportunity to create lives and relationships of unlimited happiness and abundance.

It’s time to break that glass ceiling. Are you ready?

This week, Jack and I want you to remember that as things are changing in your life, and you find yourself in the unknown, remember you’re being given an opportunity to create a new experience for yourself.

What do you want? Think about that. Then, choose to have it, knowing that what you want, wants you.

Next, stand with your feet firmly planted on the ground, with your hands up in the air, held wide open, and repeat aloud, “I receive! I receive! I receive! Thank you God, and so it is!”

Let go of the HOW and WHEN, and ALLOW the Universe to bring it in baby.

Here’s to the NEW my darlings! Cheers!!

Love always,

Tiff

P.S. What change are you facing today? Please share…

P.S.S. If this made a difference to you, why not share it with someone you love. 🙂

Change is in the air!

Change is in the air!

There’s a brisk wind coming into my bedroom window as I lay under my feather quilt.

My nose is cold and I get to snuggle up to my sleeping beloved as I type this on my iPhone. Life does not get better than this I must say!

Winter’s coming early this year and I’m not surprised. I could feel it coming weeks ago. I was telling Jack that change was on its way.

Change always happens doesn’t it? You can count on it no matter what.

The funny thing is most of us try to avoid it at all costs.

Why do we do this?

The unconscious brain’s prime directive is to keep things the same, so that it knows what to count on. This is the “safety” default setting.

If anything pops in that’s unfamiliar we tend to get a bit skittish and exhibit sabotaging behaviors. Thus, most people are anxious all the time.

Even though change is not always the desired outcome for the unconscious, it inevitably rocks our world over and over again.

The only thing that won’t change is the fact that change is continually happening.

If we’ll learn to embrace the unknown and unfamiliar we’ll thrive in the place of unlimited possibility. This is where we can set our intentions, and begin to manifest our heart’s desire. It’s the home land of all miracles!

If things were to stay the same we’d be seriously limited and stuck in the same old same old. Who really wants that? Not me!

The Universe is always here to assist by saying, “Yes” to what we focus on. And I mean every single solitary thing!!!

So, what’re you thinking about? What’s your focus?

If it’s not what you want, change your thoughts straight away so the change that comes into your life will head in the direction you truly want.

The unknown is right where I want to be. And believe me, I’m there often!

I embrace change because I know that if I want more of anything, things must change from what they are right now.

Let’s embrace the unknown so we can make love with idea of change.

I’m going to close my eyes now, in this glorious early Fall breeze and meditate, then I’m going imagine how great all my holiday parties will be.

Ahhhhhh, beautiful things are coming . . . to you too!

Peace and Sparkles,

Tiff

P.S. If you have a friend that’s going through a load of change, why not share this message with them today, and lighten their world. We’d be honored. 🙂