Masculine/Feminine Dominant Thought Quiz

When you are taking this quiz, you will want to choose the answer that would be the most natural response. Please make sure you let go of answering in regards to what you think you “should” do in any given scenario, and go with the one that you would WANT to do regardless of what you’re doing right now.

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Tiff & Jack



My “Fake” Family

My “Fake” Family


Yes I use the word counterfeit because I just read an article that said my wife and I have a counterfeit family. Well that is what a certain organization says anyway.

Definition: coun·ter·feit
made in exact imitation of something valuable or important with the intention to deceive or defraud.

I read this last night and I’ve been in deep thought about it with several different emotions. My first emotion was shock and then I had a lot of ugly emotions pop up that I refuse to dance with. That being said, I have an opportunity to speak up and call this NOT TRUE!

Suzi and I have a very “Real” family and life. We have six successful children and in-laws, and our first grand-baby on the way. We run a thriving coaching business and we pay our taxes. We spend our lives sharing a message of hope, healing, love and abundance. Our intention is to love our fellow people and accept others differences even if those differences are something we choose not to live in. There really is no room for judgment as we are all living from what we believe and understand because of our personal life experience. This is the process of life and it is beautiful.

When a human being falls in love with another human being and they choose to build a life and family unit together, I call that love. I respect that there are those that would not choose to live the life that I live and I honor that. But calling my family counterfeit comes from nothing but pure ignorance and illusion.

The one thing I know for sure is that love is the only thing on this planet that is “Real.” I feel God in every movement of love.
My heart feels saddened because many family members that I love are part of this organization, and I can only imagine the distress they may feel hearing this comment and trying to reconcile their love for my soon-to-be legal spouse, myself, our children, and grandchildren. What deep conflict must be happening through many, many, many people.

There will come a day when there’s only peace and love on this planet, and there will come a day when there will be no more pitting families against each other. And what a grand and glorious day that will be.


Is EGO Yanking Your Chain?

Is EGO Yanking Your Chain?

Peace, the ever sought after emotion in relationship.

Peace is a feeling of calm when you stand in an alignment place.

If you think peace comes by avoiding uncomfortable situations or pretending that everything is fine, you will soon come to ask the question . . .

“Why don’t I feel peaceful with the person that I love?”

If living in alignment is the key to peace you may wonder how do I get into alignment when my relationship feels so messy?

The answer is simple… if you’re willing to see where YOU are living in discrepancy and if you will let your ego rest so that teaching moments can be recognized, the universal energy/God will assist you by sending an experience that will give you clarity as to the things that you are choosing to do that are keeping your Relationship out of alignment and ridden with chaos, fear and heartache.

It can be extremely uncomfortable when facing your ego. When you realize that you have done something that keeps you separate from your sweetheart, you may feel like you are an unlovable person or will never be enough.

This is just another part of the ego screaming an illusionary tale into your mind. None of us are perfect, and the purpose of this life is to release ego so that you can truly stand in your personal power and create a joyful life with your beloved in every aspect. So buckle up my friends, this is what it’s all about.

My question for you today… Are you willing to see where your ego is keeping you stuck In relationship?

 It’s time to ask yourself, “Hmmmmm, is my ego yanking my chain today?”

Love & Kisses,


Happiness is . . .

Happiness is . . .

Today I was just thinking about how happy gorgeous lipstick, sexy dresses, and yummy hair products make me.

I Really do you find joy in the simple things of life and I’m so grateful to have the ability to do so.

Oh I forgot to mention leather cowboy boots!

What simple things make you happy?



Acceptance Day

Acceptance Day

Today is an acceptance day. Yes it’s true I had to purchase my first pair of readers at the age of 43. Jack says they’re sexy so… I’m going to wear them all the time.

Can I just say they’re only a 1.25. Ha ha ha ha ha! Sure makes doing my work for my iPhone a lot better.

Here’s to SEEING!

Peace out,


I See You

I See You


Are you willing to be seen? I mean really willing? Many of you are wanting to attract experiences that you desire, but you are not willing to be seen. In order to have what you want in your life, you must be willing to be seen. Let your light out my loves. People are waiting to see you.

When you allow others to truly see you, you’re making a statement that says, “I am here and I have something to give you.” Let us all share ourselves with everyone, for that is the joy of life.

What part of yourself are you still hiding??? Come on, share with us . . .

Tiff & Jack (Suzi )