I spent the majority of my life being someone that wanted to make everyone around me happy because then I felt like I was a “good” person and people would want me in their life.
Living this way stripped me of self-identity, in fact, I didn’t even know my favorite color (I’m not kidding).
Does this sound strange to you?
Do you know what it’s like to feel afraid to say “no” and to do everything in your power to make sure everyone’s happy all the time??!
It’s goddamn exhausting, to say the least.
Tiff and I did a facebook live stream video on this very topic and in this video we share with you HOW to say “no,” WHY it’s critical to your health and well-being, and very simple phrases you can use to say “no” without feeling like a BUTT.
Here’s to you, and me, and all of us together, loving each other, and saying “no” when we need to. 😉
Like you, we spent a good many hours this week with our eye watching the polls and wondering who would be the next president-elect of the United States of America.
Regardless of who you voted for, having the election done is a relief on many levels and possibly creating new feelings of uncertainty and hope on many more.
It’s easy to get lost in fear and wonderment of what will happen, how will things work out.
I’m personally wondering if I’ll be able to legally use the restroom without going to jail. 😉 Going to the bathroom is such a simple basic thing and yet as a transman, it’s something I worry about each day when out in public.
On another note, Tiff and I have been jumping onto facebook live and sharing a message of hope and happiness each day. It’s so funny when we are going on “live” because once you get the 3.. 2.. 1.., you know that there’s no going back and you have to put yourself out there no matter what. Jeez! Why do we do this to ourselves?? We do it because we are here to make a difference, and we just won’t be stopped, no matter what.
Yesterday, post-election, we knew there were some important words to share. We did, and our live video has gotten over 1,200 views and is still climbing…this makes us so damn happy! We’ve heard back from so many people telling us what a difference it has made for them.
When we hear that something we’ve shared gives you a lift or makes you feel better…it’s the fuel for our passion and we keep going! So thank you for that.
Here’s the LIVE video we did yesterday on facebook:
Of course when I was talking about loving each other I had to cry because I always cry when I talk about love, it’s just something that happens and there’s no stopping it. I’m a softy. My dad and brothers are all this way too.
Remember, who we voted for doesn’t define us and doesn’t need to divide us… love is the only thing that matters.
Now go out and share a kind word, smile at someone, or give a hug, or share a kind comment on facebook, as this is what truly makes the world go round.
Are you willing to do what it takes? Well…are you?
Jack and I have some questions for you? We want to ask you these questions because we actually care about your life, in fact we care so much, that we spend OUR LIFE teaching you how to create yours.
When you succeed, others know that it’s possible for them to succeed. That means your success gives another person permission to be more than what they are today.
So here it goes…
What kind of life do you want?
Are you willing to do what it takes to have that life?
Are you willing to get up every single day and take steps toward what you are creating?
Are you willing to walk through every fear that comes up that tells you why you can’t or shouldn’t have what you want?
Are you willing to question everything you think you know so that you can see more?
Are you willing to do things that may disappoint other people because you’re choosing out of other’s expectations?
Are you willing to celebrate who you really are in spite of rejection?
Are you willing to experience joy and laughter and fun every day?
Are you willing to trust the Universe implicitly and know that it has your back and will bring everything you want into your reality if you will allow it?
If you can say yes to all of these questions, you will have absolutely everything you desire.
Jack and I are here to teach you how to do it.
Our specialty is teaching you how to get clear on what you want and to arm you with powerful tools that are guaranteed to deliver over-and-over.
We know our stuff. We live it and love it and you can too.
It’s that simple… We spend our life helping you create yours!
You may have already coached with us, but need a quick tune-up, we have made it incredibly easy and affordable for you to come back, message Tiff on facebook or shoot Jack at text at 801-243-4460.
If you’re ready to explore coaching with us, we would love to start this ball rolling. The first step is to reach out, same as above…private message Tiff on facebook or text Jack at 801-243-4460, and we’ll get you the consult application.
Our consults are complimentary once your application is accepted and they can be done with you sitting on the Red Couch or via Skype, they last around 45 minutes.