Tiff and I talk about relationship this, relationship that, and today is no different because intimate relationship (whether we’re in one or not) is something everyone thinks about!

One of the things that makes the greatest difference in our relationship and life is allowing the Universe to assist us with every single thing we want for ourselves.

I know you’re continually learning and expanding your knowledge about many things, most especially things like how to manifest your dreams, and how to lessen your anxiety and upset so you can feel better.

One book that has made our lives so much better and simpler, is the “Law of Attraction.”

Many years ago, Tiff and I had gone to the library to pick up a couple of books and as we were looking along one of the shelves the “Law of Attraction” book fell right off the shelf at our feet.

We picked it up and began looking through it and realized that it was no accident we had this book in our hands.

We took it home and didn’t stop reading until we had read the whole book. It went along with the things we spend our time teaching and doing in our own lives with clearing limiting beliefs so we can have more of what we wanted in our lives.

We weren’t alone in being excited about the Law of Attraction, so is Louise Hay, the mother of positive thinking.


“The law of attraction is that our thinking creates and brings to us whatever we think about,” she says. “It’s as though every time we think a thought, every time we speak a word, the universe is listening and responding to us.”  Louise Hay


We both started consciously setting our intentions about everything, whether it was little or big. That was such an adventure!

We started having massive shifts and changes happening almost effortlessly.

We found the perfect house to live in, in the most gorgeous neighborhood. In fact, Tiff had set her intention to live in a house that was close to everything yet one that would feel like you’re living in the forest with lots of trees. She was dead set on having a flame maple tree out in front of the kitchen window…we got everything we wanted.

We realized that we had been given a magnificent gift to understand how the law of attraction works, and how simple life becomes when you allow the Universe to assist you.

You’ll often hear us say, “I set my intention that _____________.”

You may wonder what it means to set an intention.

I’m going to share with you HOW TO do this.


It’s 5 Easy Steps

  1. Identify something you want to bring into your life or something you’d like to have different.
  2. Make a decision to have it, believing that it’s yours. Making a firm decision to have it is critical. It doesn’t matter if what you want seems huge, the Universe doesn’t notice a difference between $1 or $1,000,000.
  3. Then say to yourself, “I choose to have ______” (whatever it was you made the decision about having, knowing that it’s indeed yours to have). See the Universe as your own personal manager, taking care of all the details.
  4. See yourself enjoying it as though it’s already done. See it, feel it, taste it.
  5. Surrender it, and LET GO of trying to manage the details. In other words stop trying to force it to happen the way you think it should happen. If there’s something you need to do, you’ll have a clear knowing of what that is, and it’ll give you a sense of peace to do it, otherwise just live your life, allowing the Universe to bring it in (or out). It’s that simple!

Before I finish this article, I want to share with you how intention setting works within your relationship.
For example (I will change to names to protect the innocent ;-), when Johnny says something stupid to Bella, and she gets extremely upset, Johnny will quickly set an intention that a peaceful resolution will happen and that Bella and Johnny will be happy together again, very quickly. And Johnny reports that every single time he does this, things get better very quickly.

Keep in mind, however, Johnny is a very conscious man and knows that if he’s the cause of the ruckus, that he’ll own his shit and make changes where necessary. Johnny is a very wise DM. Just sayin…

Another way intention setting works in relationship is with sex. Maybe one of you in your relationship isn’t on the same timeline as your partner, so try this experiment, set an intention for an opportunity to have great sex with your partner and notice how quickly it comes in.

Play with this stuff. It’s amazing and makes life exciting and fun.

If you’re have an especially down day, ask the Universe to assist you to feel peace instead of negativity and then allow it to come in. It really works!

And one last example of Tiff’s intention setting is to find the perfect time to have what could be an uncomfortable clarifying conversation with me. (Heaven must know that I can get a little wild sometimes when being confronted with my own stupid, or maybe Tiff is talking about Johnny, hmmmm, we’ll never know for sure will we??!!)

If you’re someone that already sets your intentions, share with the rest of us some of the great things that have come through for you below in the comment thread.

Now, set those intentions and let the Universe do the work.

We’re all in this one together.

Love,

Jack