Have you had this day yet??

F*** IT DAY!

This morning I feel called to write. I’m sitting on the couch, wrapped up in a blanket trying to overcome this nasty head cold that has me down for the count. Even still… I feel called to write.

I humbly ask God to impress upon my mind what needs to be read.

What keeps coming to me is my absolute knowing that life is meant to be a joy-filled experience. And I know the only way this can happen is if we remember who we really are and live from that place.

For the first years of our lives we are being conditioned by the people that love us and by the institutions we associate with. We are being told continually who we are, and how we need to be. So… we then began to live from other’s expectations.

Between the ages of 30 and 40, many of us feel fatigued, sick and unhappy. This is when we begin to ask the real questions.

We ask ourselves, “What is going on and why hasn’t life turned out the way I thought it would?” ” Who am I really?” “What is my purpose on this planet ?” “Do I even have a purpose?” ” What do I want out of life?” “There has to be more to life than this, right?” “God are you really there?”

These are the very questions that awaken you to the spiritual journey of coming to the center of your own soul and remembering who you really are!

Some people call this a midlife crisis, I call this a “Walk with God”. Now “God” is quite a relative term so I’ll just share what God is to me …God is the ever-present Power of joy and love on this planet.

When you wake up from the conditioned sleep of other’s expectations, you begin to have strong desires to experience new things that you haven’t allowed yourself before.

In your youth there was a time when you would rebel against your parents, but the rebellion I’m talking about is when you decide to rebel against your self imposed set of rules and regulations. This is where you throw caution to the wind, and say “Fuck It! I’m done trying to be perfect!”

I call this your “Fuck It” day!

This is a very important day.

This is the day when you begin to create consciously.

This is the day when you begin to allow yourself to have experiences so you can decide what feels the best for you.

This is the day when God whispers into your soul that there’s much more to life than living according to other’s expectations.

This is the day you wake up to your unrestrained REAL self.

This journey will take some time but little by little, experience by experience, you begin to understand that you too are here to live a joyous life by just being you.

You begin to see that what you’ve been missing all this time was your magnificent self.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are those that choose to stay asleep all of their life out of resistance to what is possible, but more and more I’m seeing people wake up to the possibility of joy.

And I do believe if you’re reading this, you’re one of those people.

Once you live from your real self, you notice that all the things you truly wanted in life will easily flow to you.

Wakey wakey my friends, life is about the journey not the destination. Buckle up because life just gets better and better.

Always yours,

Coach Tiff