I know that all this DM and DF lingo can feel so whacky and uncertain in so many ways.
“What the hell am I supposed to do with all this masculine/feminine stuff??” (You may be asking.)
Don’t you worry your pretty little self, both Tiff and yours truly will continue to help you get this schtuff figered out. (Yes, the country accent was included as I just wrote that.)
We make your relationship happiness our business. 😉
The other day I asked Tiff what being happy meant to her.
She thought about it for a minute and said, “Hmmm, what I really want is to enjoy a state of well-being.”
I found it fascinating that her word for happiness has “being” in it…well-being.
The DF lives from a state of “being” and the DM lives from a state of “doing.”
The DF is looking to BE in a state of wellness of mind, body and spirit, and the DM is looking for happiness, most often through DOING.
Tiff’s (DF) idea of well-being includes:
- being comfy with her own multifaceted emotional states
- feeling captivating
- lots of fun
- not having to manage all the details
- worry free
- sparkly things
My (DM) idea of happiness includes:
- a job well-done
- plenty of money
- Tiff’s comfort and happiness
- managing details
- looking to the future and planning
- setting goals
- good sex
- good food
- knowing I have what it takes
- being the hero (aka knight in shining armor)
The amazing thing is the fact that when each of us are happy and being/doing what feels good to us individually, we are creating the snap-crackle-pop in our relationship.
The DF and DM go together like peanut butter & jelly, wine & cheese, pizza & beer, whiskey & cigars…Tiff & Jack!
It takes 2 for relationshift bliss! (Do you love those last 2 words…they’re the name of our online relationship program that’s launching next week!! We’re freaking excited.)
Remember it takes a DM and a DF to make the sexual sparks fly in a relationship.
The first thing on your list must be to figure out if you’re the DM or the DF (click the big YELLOW button at the bottom of this page to take the quiz, if you haven’t already).
We’re serious about your well-being…and don’t you forget that!
If you want to make me (Jack/DM) happy, and I’m sure that’s your dying wish, please share the #1 thing that plops you squarely into a state of well-being.
Come on, please share your sexy feelings about this, click right here.
Love, peace & lots of sparkles just for you,
P.S. Click the happy yellow button to take the quiz.